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the getting married bit – Cortona, Tuscany

I am not sure a man ever dreams of the practicalities of getting married. I mean we don’t have scapbooks or Pinterest boards setting out what kind of flowers we want or what our groomsmen are going to wear.

We also have no comprehension of how difficult or expensive it is. So when we started to organise a wedding from Seoul by email / Skype in a town we had never been to and with Spanish instead of Italian I started panicking a bit. Couple that with the recent addition of an expensive cat to the family with medical bills that desiccated any surplus money and I started to fear that wedding equals disaster.

Cortona, Italy
The views from Cortona. Nature - ahhh I've missed you.

So the fact that we somehow managed to get married in a foreign country with friends and family from all seven continents (and I mean seven) and even had edible food for a wedding dinner speaks to the fact that our friends, family and absolute strangers went above and beyond. Because I really did sod all. So this post is some form of thanks before handwritten letters arrive to those who helped out and also by way of a recommendation if you ever find yourself in Tuscany.

Cortona

Cortona, Italy
The inside of the old theatre (now cinema) in Cortona

First, Cortona. So we knew we wanted a wedding that was focused around friends and family and somewhere with good food. The selection of Italy and the hill town of Cortona was a bit of a gamble based on the recommendation of a friend in Seoul who knew a great villa there (more below).

Cortona, Italy
A feast put on by the owner of the old theatre (now cinema) pre wedding

Now despite being a bit of an Italian hill town lothario and having dallied with a few Tuscan civic centres I somehow never made it to Cortona. In fact I had never heard of it. This is particularly strange as when we invited people there were two types of response. The Americans all knew of Cortona whilst the Europeans and Asians were “ok that’s in Tuscany right?“. What Jen and I had somehow missed is ‘Under the Tuscan Sun’ which is a rom-com book and film apparently. Quite frankly I am seriously glad we missed this as otherwise we would have never opted for Cortona as I would have feared it would be a tourist hell hole.

Cortona, Italy
A walk alongside the walls of Cortona

And the most remarkable thing is; it isn’t. Cortona is probably the prettiest, most lively and un-touristy hill town I’ve been to. And because it seems to have been sustained by a local population rather than tourism it means that it has a real character and proper food. We particularly recommend the following in Cortona: (i) Taverna Pane e Vino; (ii) La Loggetta; (iii) and the restaurant run by the owner of the theatre/ cinema if you can persuade her as the setting is resplendent.

Cortona, Italy
Bistecca from La Loggetta. Taverna Pane e Vino is also highly recommended

Villa Ugo

Whilst Cortona was the setting what really made the wedding was the accommodation. Being in Asia means we don’t get to see people properly. So we wanted to stay with and next to our friends and at a German friend’s suggestion in Seoul booked all three villas which make up Villa Ugo (here).

Cortona - Wedding

Quite frankly it was a bit of a gamble as we had never been and this is where we were going to spend the week of the wedding. Well the gods shined on us as Villa Ugo is basically where you wish you had grown up and with owners who you would happily accept as surrogate parents.

Cortona - Wedding

To give a brief example, the night before the wedding we wanted to do a pizza and prosecco party so all the guests could get to know each other. At this stage Ugo (the owner) simply says leave it to me and drives 25km to queue for and buy the region’s most famous pizza.

Cortona, Italy
The pizza and prosecco party at Villa Ugo

Coupled with the fact that the villas which make up Villa Ugo – Villa Liliana, Villa Orlando and Villa Nello – are picturesque, come with beautiful stone bathrooms and modern kitchens and are decorated in style means  we obviously did something right in a past life.

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The garden at Villa Ugo

Villa Passerini

Cortona - Wedding

Now I doubt people would call me humble but they would probably accept that I am low key; jeans and bikes rather than white tie and Maseratis. So Villa Passerini slightly overwhelmed me when we first saw it with all its Napoleonic frescoes, Roman swimming pools and Tuscan glamour.

Cortona - Wedding

However, fill it with 60 of your closest, top it up with as much alcohol as Tuscany can provide and some great catering by Tonino Catering and it was all a lot more relaxed and turned out to be the perfect place to get married.

Cortona - Wedding

Once again thanks to this has to go to Ugo of Villa Ugo as Villa Passerini is owned by some great friends of his who again went above and beyond to make the wedding day special. Why are Italians so nice?

Cortona - Wedding
We had Cantonese guests coming; I mean there had to be roast pig right?

Friends

Cortona, Italy
Friends beating me up on stag night

Now when I said above this couldn’t have been done without friends I really meant it. It is true from the emotional to the plain fiscal. One of Jen’s best friends – Tess who is a pastry chef in SF – did the cake. Three of my best friends – C, R and Mat – did the photography. Clair, a talented poet, grabbed the chance to rhyme and tease us at the ceremony (her mockery is here) and a priest from an nascent religion did the ceremony for free. Without this we would have been eating rice and drinking water.

Cortona, Italy

This was topped off by Josh Wong from noughts and exes flying over from Hong Kong to do the music. So then it was the honeymoon.

Cortona - Wedding

18 Comments

  1. I’ve been so homesick for Cortona & all of you- this lovely post convinces me that it all really happened, that I didn’t just dream a perfect Italian week of the best pools & prosecco & people. xo to all.

  2. awwwwwwwwwww. i scrolled and scrolled hoping for more wedding photos, but alas. At least the tied up pig looked good :)

    • You have us on FB right? So you have all the photos I think. The real wedding photos are locked down. I am under strict instructions from Jen that my half-assed editing skills are not allowed near htem.

  3. oh and CONGRATS and all that! :)

  4. Looks like pretty much the perfect wedding. I know exactly what you mean about having friends and family close by throughout the whole affair. That’s partly what makes the event so wonderful, when everyone can mingle and chat and get to know each other without having to hit a busy high street half way through, or scatter to accommodation spread across a city. And what a place to have it! Looks wonderful.

    • I do wish you had been there. Would have been good. Already looking forward to hitting some pints in London and catching up.

      And we got lucky… it could have been 180 degrees different.

  5. How wonderful! Congrats on getting married!
    PS Am very impressed you had guests from all the continents, is someone working at an Antarctic research station? We visited a couple during our (tourist) trips down there…

    • Jen did a couple of seasons in Antarctica so a lot of her friends are from down there. One of the reasons we held the wedding at that time of year so was that people weren’t on the ‘Ice’. I still haven’t been. However, now that we are married it means I have the right to work as a janitor on the US base apparently :)

      Thanks for congrats :)

  6. Jen, this looks like an absolutely magnificent wedding!! From other pictures I know you looked beautiful, and it sounds like you guys had an amazing time. How could you not? It’s Italy! I am determined to get there someday. :) Can’t wait to read about the honeymoon. Congratulations again!

    • Jocelyn, Jen won’t have got this comment as I wrote this post and she doesn’t get notified of comments on it but will let her know :0

  7. Gary S

    Yes, a wedding feast won’t complete without roast pig! That’s an awesome pig. The wedding’s beautiful. Congratulations once again! xoxo

  8. It looks wonderful. I’m so glad that everything worked out for you guys!

  9. Congratulations Jen and Tom. Double Happiness all the way!.

  10. You guys are brave to undertake such a task. Congratulations; it looks utterly gorgeous.

  11. Your wedding week looks and sounds absolutely dreamy. How lucky you are. We got to spend 12 days in Umbria with 18 of our good friends, and were fortunate to stay in an incredible villa. I am angling to figure out how to get back there.

    http://saltandserenity.com/2011/10/01/the-best-thing-i-ate-today-in-umbria-day-3/

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